# Toe Or Tell

> Toe Or Tell (toeortell.com) is an 18+ US marketplace for worn socks and underwear, opening soon. It is not taking orders or payments yet; there is a waitlist. There is no explicit content: listings show the item, never the person. Listings on the site today are labelled samples.

How it will work when the shop opens:
- Sellers pass a private ID and age check through a third-party verification provider before they can list, and sell under a stage name. Toe Or Tell does not keep ID documents.
- Wearing Now: buyers reserve a pair while the seller is still wearing it, with timestamped text check-ins and a countdown until it ships.
- The Lucky Drawer: a sealed mystery box from one seller, matched to the buyer's chosen categories, wear and exclusions. Tiers: The Peek ($45), The Unwrap ($75), Full Reveal ($99). The refund policy will be published before the first box ships.
- Second Date: reorder from the same seller after a Lucky Drawer reveal.
- Buyers pay Toe Or Tell, never a seller directly. Sellers keep 85% of each sale. Sellers must ship in plain outer packaging, and charges will show a neutral billing name confirmed before launch.

## Help
- [Billing and charges](https://toeortell.com/billing/)
- [How seller verification works](https://toeortell.com/verification/)
- [Prohibited items](https://toeortell.com/prohibited/)
- [Home and FAQ](https://toeortell.com/)

## The Tell-All (journal)
- [Where does the dryer put the other sock?](https://toeortell.com/journal/where-does-the-dryer-put-the-other-sock/): why socks go missing and three habits that stop it
- [The Scam Field Guide: 9 tricks to spot before you ship](https://toeortell.com/journal/scam-field-guide-for-sellers/): safety guide for people selling worn items online
- [What your sock drawer says about you](https://toeortell.com/journal/what-your-sock-drawer-says-about-you/): six unscientific sock-drawer personalities